Support and making lives matter

2018-12-09

About this time two years ago, I was asked if I would write a letter for #GirlsLivesMatter. Because a sickeningly high percentage of girls from our Northern communities attempt or succeed in taking their lives due to an overwhelming feeling of defeat, hopelessness and despair that nothing will ever change or get better. Sadly… it often doesn’t when you are caught in an unending cycle of poverty, abuse, and self-flagellation. While that letter went on to be published and discussed on CBC, I have often felt that while words can be very powerful, often there is a need for far more.

Ironically I was reminded of this letter this evening while speaking to a male friend and colleague about the vagaries of power. I say ironically because THIS week, I am feeling strong, and secure, and supported. Not only because of supportive individuals and conversations with those such as he (thanks Arinjay!), but because over the last two weeks I have been surrounded by a group of caring “people” who have had my back and gone to bat for me, as well as made the effort to ensure that I remember I still have a “mighty” voice.

And I have been thinking of Paula – whose voice still echoes in many of the things we do and words we speak…
So thank you for reminding me… but don’t forget that YOU TOO also have a voice.

If there is something you feel needs to be said – be brave.
Because if you don’t – who will?